Stop doing these things:
Don't lie to yourself. You know what you want.
Don't be jealous of someone you don't even want to aspire to be like.
Don't take your blessings, no matter how small, for granted.
Don't take criticism to heart from people you wouldn't even ask for advice.
Don't argue with people who won't even try to understand you.
Don't change your personal values and principles to fit in. Do your own thing.
Don't say yes to things you'd rather say no to.
Don't reject your gut feeling.
Don't beat yourself up if you do. Be kind to yourself.
Don't say "one day...". Say "Day One!".